well have been rough last  month but oh well
let's see ... soon to be ex came back to state 2 days before xmas and instead of coming to Disney world to salvage what was left of our sons holidays, that she hasn't ruined yet, she choose to rent  a truck and then break into house, literally, at 5:30 am on xmas eve morning and steal everything that was worth a damn. Trashed  the house to get what she wanted like vacuum, 42 inch flat screen, tv stand, all wedding pics and stuff ,all our pictures for the 16 years,etc...
left our sons video game consoles and stuff piled in a heap on couch. but it gets better After I drive back  from Disney bout an hour and half done in hour lol was speeding slightly
she comes to Disney that night and acts like all is cool and gets mad when we  don't want to see her
so she proceeds to ruin rest of sons xmas and starts a huge fight last night there! And she decided to put her hands on me and ram the heal of her hand into my shoulder that I had surgery on, so I had to tell her ever again put her hands on me and she will be dead
needless to say I had some rude names generated at her
This divorce is gonna be ugly LOL
Oh and just started therapy for strengthening arm and can start to try and use it